<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490</id><updated>2012-02-15T16:52:31.019-05:00</updated><category term='VAWA'/><category term='man kills estranged wife and children'/><category term='male victims'/><category term='STOP grants'/><category term='homicide review panel'/><category term='civil court'/><category term='womens violence'/><category term='june 20'/><category term='violent girls'/><category term='celebrities in the news'/><category term='abusive women'/><category term='arrests of women'/><category term='domestic violence awareness'/><category term='abused men and women'/><category term='violence against men'/><category term='male survivors'/><category term='Teen Mom'/><category term='emotional abuse'/><category term='myths about abused men'/><category term='sexual abuse'/><category term='vladek filler'/><category term='crimes against women'/><category term='battered women'/><category term='partner abuse'/><category term='support groups'/><category term='domestic assault'/><category term='Monica'/><category term='partner violence'/><category term='assistance'/><category term='shelter services'/><category term='mutual abuse'/><category term='resources'/><category term='men with violence women'/><category term='dads'/><category term='domestic violence related murder'/><category term='LGBT'/><category term='advocates'/><category term='domestic abuse helpline for men and women'/><category term='pioneer'/><category term='Amber Portwood'/><category term='victim services'/><category term='white ribbon campaign'/><category term='female abusers'/><category term='dahmw'/><category term='divorce'/><category term='gays and lesbians'/><category term='advocate'/><category term='An Open Letter to the United States Department of Justice (DOJ)'/><category term='child custody'/><category term='domestic violence related homicide'/><category term='housing'/><category term='injustice'/><category term='patriarchy'/><category term='Amy'/><category term='violent women'/><category term='domestic violence against men'/><category term='antelope valley domestic violence council'/><category term='false allegations'/><category term='suicide'/><category term='bangor daily news'/><category term='abused men'/><category term='Coty'/><category term='fathers day'/><category term='abusive relationships'/><category term='domestic abuse helpline'/><category term='victims rights'/><category term='media'/><category term='patricia overberg'/><category term='sons'/><category term='bail'/><category term='male victims services'/><category term='under served'/><category term='services for male victims'/><category term='same-sex relationships'/><category term='courts'/><category term='chris nagle'/><category term='celebrities'/><category term='division of public safety planning'/><category term='International day of the elimination of violence against women'/><category term='abused boys'/><category term='arrested'/><category term='hotline'/><category term='Mississippi'/><category term='laws'/><category term='Dr. Phil'/><category term='violence against women'/><category term='conviction'/><category term='valley oasis'/><category term='news stories'/><category term='16 days of activism against gender violence'/><category term='research'/><category term='domestic violence'/><category term='intimate partner abuse'/><category term='female killers'/><category term='mary kellett'/><category term='group health research'/><category term='rape hysteria'/><category term='daughters'/><category term='child abuse'/><category term='media stereotypes'/><category term='Gelles'/><category term='murder suicide'/><category term='Lake'/><category term='domestic abuse'/><category term='Dept of Justice'/><category term='real stories'/><category term='Maine'/><category term='abused children'/><category term='headline stories'/><category term='fear'/><category term='myths'/><category term='zealous prosecutor'/><category term='transgender'/><category term='helping men'/><category term='Dexter'/><category term='domestic violence men'/><title type='text'>Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men and Women</title><subtitle type='html'>The Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men and Women (DAHMW)is a national non profit agency founded 2000 to fill the void left by the traditional women's domestic violence programs. We specialize in bringing awareness and supportive services to male victims of intimate partner abuse.</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men and Women</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09540842730444740948</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>97</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-6668827165057492049</id><published>2011-11-01T11:21:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2011-11-01T11:21:17.310-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='abused men and women'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='victim services'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='male victims'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic abuse'/><title type='text'>We May Be Forced to Close Down Our Nat'l Helpline- Please Don't Let This Happen!</title><summary type='text'>Dear Friends:

For 11 years, the Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men and Women (DAHMW) has remained committed to helping victims of domestic violence, especially those under served. DAHMW has relied on funding from the founder's personal resources, and private donations from generous individuals, who share our commitment to support victims of domestic violence. Through our National Crisis Helpline, </summary><link rel='related' href='http://www.dahmw.org' title='We May Be Forced to Close Down Our Nat&apos;l Helpline- Please Don&apos;t Let This Happen!'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/6668827165057492049/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2011/11/we-may-be-forced-to-close-down-our-natl.html#comment-form' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/6668827165057492049'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/6668827165057492049'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2011/11/we-may-be-forced-to-close-down-our-natl.html' title='We May Be Forced to Close Down Our Nat&apos;l Helpline- Please Don&apos;t Let This Happen!'/><author><name>Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men and Women</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09540842730444740948</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-6208214920015514732</id><published>2011-10-31T09:43:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2011-10-31T09:43:06.447-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='shelter services'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='male victims'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic abuse'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='under served'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='abused men'/><title type='text'>ELEVEN YEARS OF PROMOTING AWARENESS AND SERVICES FOR UNDER SERVED VICTIMS</title><summary type='text'>Eleven Years by Jan Brown

From Our October 2011 Newsletter:

On October 27th we will celebrate our eleven year anniversary of serving victims of intimate partner violence.  Quite an accomplishment when you consider that we have maintained a nationally available toll free helpline manned by an all volunteer staff with a budget that averages $15,000 or less  in contributions and small grants each </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/6208214920015514732/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2011/10/eleven-years-of-promoting-awareness-and.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/6208214920015514732'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/6208214920015514732'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2011/10/eleven-years-of-promoting-awareness-and.html' title='ELEVEN YEARS OF PROMOTING AWARENESS AND SERVICES FOR UNDER SERVED VICTIMS'/><author><name>Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men and Women</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09540842730444740948</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-5729509277727618301</id><published>2011-08-15T14:05:00.013-04:00</published><updated>2011-08-15T14:27:45.307-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='pioneer'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='advocate'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='antelope valley domestic violence council'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='patricia overberg'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='male victims services'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic violence'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='valley oasis'/><title type='text'>Patricia Overberg, Pioneer in the Movement to End Intimate Partner Violence Has Died</title><summary type='text'>&lt;!--[if gte mso 9]&gt;     Normal   0               false   false   false      EN-US   X-NONE   X-NONE                                                     MicrosoftInternetExplorer4                                                   &lt;![endif]--&gt;&lt;!--[if gte mso 9]&gt;</summary><link rel='enclosure' type='' href='http://www.dahmw.org' length='0'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/5729509277727618301/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2011/08/patricia-overberg-pioneer-in-movement.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/5729509277727618301'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/5729509277727618301'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2011/08/patricia-overberg-pioneer-in-movement.html' title='Patricia Overberg, Pioneer in the Movement to End Intimate Partner Violence Has Died'/><author><name>Jan Brown</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05664863368651263544</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_NLsIEo5Kf5Q/TGMSBcyODhI/AAAAAAAAAAM/afGXjP3g4og/S220/JanB4CA.JPG'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-5409868679365029757</id><published>2011-07-29T15:07:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2011-07-29T15:18:45.111-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='victims rights'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic assault'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='bail'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic violence related murder'/><title type='text'>Changes Need to Be Made</title><summary type='text'>&lt;!--[if gte mso 9]&gt;     Normal   0               false   false   false      EN-US   X-NONE   X-NONE                                                     MicrosoftInternetExplorer4                                                   &lt;![endif]--&gt;&lt;!--[if gte mso 9]&gt;</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/5409868679365029757/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2011/07/changes-need-to-be-made.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/5409868679365029757'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/5409868679365029757'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2011/07/changes-need-to-be-made.html' title='Changes Need to Be Made'/><author><name>Jan Brown</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05664863368651263544</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_NLsIEo5Kf5Q/TGMSBcyODhI/AAAAAAAAAAM/afGXjP3g4og/S220/JanB4CA.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-6485981758125492360</id><published>2011-07-26T07:27:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2011-07-26T07:30:02.344-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Research Assistants For Special Project</title><summary type='text'>Research Assistants For Special Project
Description                    The Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men and Women, a national  helpline for victims of partner violence, is conducting research related  to intimate partner violence. We are seeking dedicated volunteer  research assistants to help us in this and other related projects.  Volunteer research assistants will provide support to our </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/6485981758125492360/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2011/07/research-assistants-for-special-project.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/6485981758125492360'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/6485981758125492360'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2011/07/research-assistants-for-special-project.html' title='Research Assistants For Special Project'/><author><name>Jan Brown</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05664863368651263544</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_NLsIEo5Kf5Q/TGMSBcyODhI/AAAAAAAAAAM/afGXjP3g4og/S220/JanB4CA.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-169664025068569415</id><published>2011-07-06T21:15:00.014-04:00</published><updated>2011-07-06T21:37:00.091-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='bangor daily news'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='battered women'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic assault'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='male victims'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='female killers'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic violence related homicide'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='homicide review panel'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='media'/><title type='text'>The Media’s Role in Educating the Public on Domestic Violence Related Issues</title><summary type='text'>&lt;!--[if gte mso 9]&gt;         12.00   &lt;![endif]--&gt;&lt;!--[if gte mso 9]&gt;     Normal   0               false   false   false      EN-US   X-NONE   X-NONE                                                                                                     &lt;![endif]--&gt;&lt;!--[if gte mso 9]&gt;</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/169664025068569415/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2011/07/medias-role-in-educating-public-on.html#comment-form' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/169664025068569415'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/169664025068569415'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2011/07/medias-role-in-educating-public-on.html' title='The Media’s Role in Educating the Public on Domestic Violence Related Issues'/><author><name>Jan Brown</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05664863368651263544</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_NLsIEo5Kf5Q/TGMSBcyODhI/AAAAAAAAAAM/afGXjP3g4og/S220/JanB4CA.JPG'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-2079639879410281609</id><published>2011-06-21T22:14:00.088-04:00</published><updated>2011-06-22T09:48:23.759-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Lake'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Monica'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='man kills estranged wife and children'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Dexter'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='murder suicide'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Coty'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic violence'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Maine'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Amy'/><title type='text'>Expose - Did the System Fail Amy, Monica and Coty?</title><summary type='text'>I received a call from a friend a week ago Monday.  He phoned to tell me about a grave situation that was unfolding in the town 15 miles away.  My friend reported that a local man named Steve Lake was holding his estranged wife Amy and his two children, Monica age 12 and Coty age 13, hostage in their home. 

   
I became gravely concerned for the safety of Amy and their adolescent children, </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/2079639879410281609/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2011/06/expose-did-system-fail-amy-monica-and.html#comment-form' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/2079639879410281609'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/2079639879410281609'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2011/06/expose-did-system-fail-amy-monica-and.html' title='Expose - Did the System Fail Amy, Monica and Coty?'/><author><name>Jan Brown</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05664863368651263544</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_NLsIEo5Kf5Q/TGMSBcyODhI/AAAAAAAAAAM/afGXjP3g4og/S220/JanB4CA.JPG'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-9123663005605439678</id><published>2011-06-15T14:37:00.041-04:00</published><updated>2011-06-15T14:59:34.534-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Batterers Intervention Programs for Men vs. Women – Apples and Oranges</title><summary type='text'>In Barbara Kay’s column in the National Post, “The other side of the domestic abuse story,”   she asserts that while there are court mandated anger management programs for men who commit intimate partner violence (IPV) to her knowledge there are no court mandated anger management programs for women who perpetrate the same.  This assertion prompted Jonathan Kulman, a co-ordinator at one of the </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/9123663005605439678/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2011/06/batterers-intervention-programs-for-men.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/9123663005605439678'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/9123663005605439678'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2011/06/batterers-intervention-programs-for-men.html' title='Batterers Intervention Programs for Men vs. Women – Apples and Oranges'/><author><name>Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men and Women</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09540842730444740948</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-3431926826890306405</id><published>2011-06-02T23:15:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2011-06-02T23:15:57.765-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Barking Mad or Clever as a Fox? The Vladek Filler Re-trial</title><summary type='text'>&lt;!--[if gte mso 9]&gt;     Normal   0               false   false   false      EN-US   X-NONE   X-NONE                                                                                                     &lt;![endif]--&gt;&lt;!--[if gte mso 9]&gt;</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/3431926826890306405/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2011/06/barking-mad-or-clever-as-fox-vladek.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/3431926826890306405'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/3431926826890306405'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2011/06/barking-mad-or-clever-as-fox-vladek.html' title='Barking Mad or Clever as a Fox? The Vladek Filler Re-trial'/><author><name>Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men and Women</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09540842730444740948</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-1439696552512741149</id><published>2011-06-02T15:01:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2011-06-02T17:15:23.134-04:00</updated><title type='text'>About My Next Blog Entry</title><summary type='text'>Last week I attended a criminal trial in Ellsworth, Maine to lend my support to Vladek Filler and his extended family.  I have written a 3500 word article where I share my observations, impressions, and opinions about the Filler family, the process and trial.  It's quite long for a blog entry and I considered putting it up in three parts but then decided it was best to put the entire article up </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/1439696552512741149/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2011/06/word-of-caution-about-my-next-blog.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/1439696552512741149'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/1439696552512741149'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2011/06/word-of-caution-about-my-next-blog.html' title='About My Next Blog Entry'/><author><name>Jan Brown</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05664863368651263544</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_NLsIEo5Kf5Q/TGMSBcyODhI/AAAAAAAAAAM/afGXjP3g4og/S220/JanB4CA.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-1699580608588984890</id><published>2011-05-02T14:48:00.026-04:00</published><updated>2011-05-02T16:33:40.939-04:00</updated><title type='text'>What if it was your grandfather, father, brother or best friend?</title><summary type='text'>Two recent studies, one by Randle and Graham and the other by Hines and Douglas, found that male victims were just as likely to suffer  from PTSD, depression and suicide ideation as female victims of  domestic abuse. In addition, psychological abuse was just as strongly  associated with PTSD as was physical violence in these male victims. One  researcher noted that these findings raise questions </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/1699580608588984890/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2011/05/what-if-it-was-your-grandfather-father.html#comment-form' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/1699580608588984890'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/1699580608588984890'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2011/05/what-if-it-was-your-grandfather-father.html' title='What if it was your grandfather, father, brother or best friend?'/><author><name>Jan Brown</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05664863368651263544</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_NLsIEo5Kf5Q/TGMSBcyODhI/AAAAAAAAAAM/afGXjP3g4og/S220/JanB4CA.JPG'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-1695712621929896515</id><published>2011-04-14T22:07:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2011-04-14T22:07:35.801-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='divorce'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='child custody'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='male victims'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='vladek filler'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic violence'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='rape hysteria'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='false allegations'/><title type='text'>When Winning is More Important than Seeking the Truth Male Victims and Children Suffer</title><summary type='text'>&lt;!--[if gte mso 9]&gt;     Normal   0               false   false   false      EN-US   X-NONE   X-NONE                                                                                                     &lt;![endif]--&gt;&lt;!--[if gte mso 9]&gt;</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/1695712621929896515/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2011/04/when-winning-is-more-important-than.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/1695712621929896515'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/1695712621929896515'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2011/04/when-winning-is-more-important-than.html' title='When Winning is More Important than Seeking the Truth Male Victims and Children Suffer'/><author><name>Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men and Women</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09540842730444740948</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-1301517784438148333</id><published>2011-04-12T18:09:00.023-04:00</published><updated>2011-04-14T21:48:24.927-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='mary kellett'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='injustice'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='male victims'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='abused children'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='vladek filler'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic violence'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='zealous prosecutor'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Maine'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='false allegations'/><title type='text'>When Winning Becomes More Important than Seeking the Truth Male Victims and Children Suffer</title><summary type='text'>Part 1of 2
Up until the 1970’s we had few laws and no real system in place to protect victims of child abuse, domestic violence and/or marital rape.  At that time this type of violence was treated more like a family matter to be dealt with within the confines of the family and not through the criminal justice system.  Victims of family violence were not taken as seriously as they are today and </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/1301517784438148333/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2011/04/when-winning-becomes-more-important.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/1301517784438148333'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/1301517784438148333'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2011/04/when-winning-becomes-more-important.html' title='When Winning Becomes More Important than Seeking the Truth Male Victims and Children Suffer'/><author><name>Jan Brown</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05664863368651263544</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_NLsIEo5Kf5Q/TGMSBcyODhI/AAAAAAAAAAM/afGXjP3g4og/S220/JanB4CA.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-5419306997470930129</id><published>2011-02-25T15:27:00.050-05:00</published><updated>2011-02-25T17:38:06.416-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='male survivors'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='emotional abuse'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='abusive relationships'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='male victims'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='violent women'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic abuse'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic violence'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='abusive women'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='abused men'/><title type='text'>What Did He Do to Make Her Abuse Him?</title><summary type='text'>&lt;!--[if gte mso 9]&gt;     Normal   0               false   false   false      EN-US   X-NONE   X-NONE                                                     MicrosoftInternetExplorer4                                                   &lt;![endif]--&gt;&lt;!--[if gte mso 9]&gt;</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/5419306997470930129/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2011/02/what-did-he-do-to-make-her-abuse-him.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/5419306997470930129'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/5419306997470930129'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2011/02/what-did-he-do-to-make-her-abuse-him.html' title='What Did He Do to Make Her Abuse Him?'/><author><name>Jan Brown</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05664863368651263544</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_NLsIEo5Kf5Q/TGMSBcyODhI/AAAAAAAAAAM/afGXjP3g4og/S220/JanB4CA.JPG'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-713227510589884089</id><published>2011-02-10T14:31:00.006-05:00</published><updated>2011-02-10T14:45:37.113-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='intimate partner abuse'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='female abusers'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='emotional abuse'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='abusive relationships'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='fear'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic violence against men'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='abusive women'/><title type='text'>Taking It Like a Man and The Fear Factor</title><summary type='text'>Two of the comments I received to my blog entry of January 20th about Dr. Phil reminded just how far people will go to hold steadfast to their convictions no matter what evidence may be presented to the contrary. 

Matt wrote, “Finally men are learning how to get their balls back and stand up to women. “Anonymous” wrote quite a lengthy comment that I will summarize here: Dr. Phil is right, size </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/713227510589884089/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2011/02/taking-it-like-man-and-fear-factor.html#comment-form' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/713227510589884089'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/713227510589884089'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2011/02/taking-it-like-man-and-fear-factor.html' title='Taking It Like a Man and The Fear Factor'/><author><name>Jan Brown</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05664863368651263544</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_NLsIEo5Kf5Q/TGMSBcyODhI/AAAAAAAAAAM/afGXjP3g4og/S220/JanB4CA.JPG'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-3628177837616275172</id><published>2011-02-02T13:23:00.014-05:00</published><updated>2011-02-02T15:15:24.247-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic assault'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='housing'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='courts'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic violence'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='laws'/><title type='text'>In the News....</title><summary type='text'>How Far is Too Far in Our Pursuit to End Domestic Violence? 

Recently, Britain's Supreme Court ruled that yelling at your intimate partner could be considered domestic violence. In a UK case appealed to a higher court a panel of five judges, lead by Lady Brenda Hale, found that the lower court got it wrong when they ruled against Mihret Yemshaw. Yemshaw's case was sent back to the lower court </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/3628177837616275172/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2011/02/news-blurbs.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/3628177837616275172'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/3628177837616275172'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2011/02/news-blurbs.html' title='In the News....'/><author><name>Jan Brown</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05664863368651263544</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_NLsIEo5Kf5Q/TGMSBcyODhI/AAAAAAAAAAM/afGXjP3g4og/S220/JanB4CA.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-4848506918480663059</id><published>2011-01-20T15:47:00.024-05:00</published><updated>2011-01-20T16:18:24.732-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='myths'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='womens violence'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='abusive relationships'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='male victims'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic abuse'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='abusive women'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Dr. Phil'/><title type='text'>Dr. Phil and His Viewers Don't See Eye to Eye on Women's Domestic Violence Against Men</title><summary type='text'>In our October 2010 Newsletter, I wrote a letter to Dr. Phil: 

A Letter to Dr. Phil From Jan Elizabeth Brown

"Dr. Phil, you are an intelligent, well read man so I can’t for the life of me understand how you can continue to ignore the truth regarding domestic violence. Your recent announcement declaring that your show’s ninth season will be devoted to “ending the silence on domestic violence,” </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/4848506918480663059/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2011/01/dr-phil-and-his-viewers-dont-see-eye-to.html#comment-form' title='6 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/4848506918480663059'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/4848506918480663059'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2011/01/dr-phil-and-his-viewers-dont-see-eye-to.html' title='Dr. Phil and His Viewers Don&apos;t See Eye to Eye on Women&apos;s Domestic Violence Against Men'/><author><name>Jan Brown</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05664863368651263544</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_NLsIEo5Kf5Q/TGMSBcyODhI/AAAAAAAAAAM/afGXjP3g4og/S220/JanB4CA.JPG'/></author><thr:total>6</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-3173418253923152998</id><published>2011-01-11T10:54:00.028-05:00</published><updated>2011-01-11T11:28:34.449-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='crimes against women'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='VAWA'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='male victims'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='violence against women'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='STOP grants'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Dept of Justice'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Gelles'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='abused men'/><title type='text'>It's Not a Conspiracy Guys, It's the Law! Or Is It?</title><summary type='text'>I happened upon an article in the Lawrence Journal World News (LJWorld) that caught my attention.  The article was about how the Douglas County (KS) prosecutors and Lawrence Police Department were awarded a one year STOP grant, made available through the federal Violence Against Woman's Act (VAWA).

The article mentioned that obtaining this grant would allow these prosecutors and police to create</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/3173418253923152998/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2011/01/its-not-conspiracy-guys-its-law-or-is.html#comment-form' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/3173418253923152998'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/3173418253923152998'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2011/01/its-not-conspiracy-guys-its-law-or-is.html' title='It&apos;s Not a Conspiracy Guys, It&apos;s the Law! Or Is It?'/><author><name>Jan Brown</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05664863368651263544</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_NLsIEo5Kf5Q/TGMSBcyODhI/AAAAAAAAAAM/afGXjP3g4og/S220/JanB4CA.JPG'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-7434507060951270995</id><published>2010-12-28T09:53:00.120-05:00</published><updated>2010-12-28T21:24:19.806-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='female abusers'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='male victims'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Teen Mom'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic violence'/><title type='text'>Is There a Domestic Violence Double Standard?</title><summary type='text'>After months of investigation MTV's "Teen Mom" star Amber Portwood has finally been arrested and charged with felony domestic battery for her assaults on her now ex-boyfriend Gary Shirley and her toddler daughter.    You might ask, "Why did it take so long?"  That's a great question given the fact that the police have had documented proof of Portwood's physical attacks (attacks that happened in </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/7434507060951270995/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/12/is-there-domestic-violence-double.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/7434507060951270995'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/7434507060951270995'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/12/is-there-domestic-violence-double.html' title='Is There a Domestic Violence Double Standard?'/><author><name>Jan Brown</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05664863368651263544</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_NLsIEo5Kf5Q/TGMSBcyODhI/AAAAAAAAAAM/afGXjP3g4og/S220/JanB4CA.JPG'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-4444711399479175034</id><published>2010-12-10T14:59:00.056-05:00</published><updated>2010-12-10T16:21:20.372-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='violence against men'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='white ribbon campaign'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='International day of the elimination of violence against women'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='16 days of activism against gender violence'/><title type='text'>Wait Your Turn Mister!</title><summary type='text'>Right on the heels of Domestic Violence [against women] Awareness Month  (October) comes the International Day of the Elimination of Violence  Against Women (Nov.25th)  and 16 Days of  Activism Against Gender Violence.  Concurrent with these last two campaigns is the White Ribbon Campaign which is the time for men and women to wear white ribbons and pledge to  never commit, condone or remain </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/4444711399479175034/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/12/wait-your-turn-mister.html#comment-form' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/4444711399479175034'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/4444711399479175034'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/12/wait-your-turn-mister.html' title='Wait Your Turn Mister!'/><author><name>Jan Brown</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05664863368651263544</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_NLsIEo5Kf5Q/TGMSBcyODhI/AAAAAAAAAAM/afGXjP3g4og/S220/JanB4CA.JPG'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-2005290598720981431</id><published>2010-11-27T20:54:00.004-05:00</published><updated>2010-11-27T21:13:05.466-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='patriarchy'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Amber Portwood'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic assault'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='child abuse'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='abusive relationships'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='male victims'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='abused men'/><title type='text'>We Need to Stop Excusing Women's Violence</title><summary type='text'>For the past few weeks one of the the stars of MTV's hit show, "Teen  Mom," Amber Portwood, has been the focus of a whole lot of media  attention for her domestically violent behavior caught on tape towards the father of  her toddler child Leah and boyfriend, Gary Shirley.  Every news outlet  from CBS to  CNN to TMZ has written or spoken about the on-camera verbal and physical  assaults that </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/2005290598720981431/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/11/for-past-few-weeks-one-of-the-stars-of.html#comment-form' title='6 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/2005290598720981431'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/2005290598720981431'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/11/for-past-few-weeks-one-of-the-stars-of.html' title='We Need to Stop Excusing Women&apos;s Violence'/><author><name>Jan Brown</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05664863368651263544</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_NLsIEo5Kf5Q/TGMSBcyODhI/AAAAAAAAAAM/afGXjP3g4og/S220/JanB4CA.JPG'/></author><thr:total>6</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-8368142244824163412</id><published>2010-11-19T06:30:00.002-05:00</published><updated>2010-11-19T06:44:23.963-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Give Under Served Victims of Domestic Violence a Lifeline</title><summary type='text'>      We are in the Pepsi Refresh Project challenge for the month of November.  Please Vote for our Project to win by going to the Pepsi site, signing up and voting daily.  Thank You! 
Our Project:
Goals      To raise awareness about the 834,000 male victims of dv annuallyTo educate and empower victims and others with our publicationsTo offer concrete help and support to male victims   Overview  </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/8368142244824163412/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/11/give-under-served-victims-of-domestic.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/8368142244824163412'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/8368142244824163412'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/11/give-under-served-victims-of-domestic.html' title='Give Under Served Victims of Domestic Violence a Lifeline'/><author><name>Jan Brown</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05664863368651263544</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_NLsIEo5Kf5Q/TGMSBcyODhI/AAAAAAAAAAM/afGXjP3g4og/S220/JanB4CA.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-973638332056261196</id><published>2010-11-16T17:09:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2010-11-16T17:09:29.730-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Real Men Do Cry</title><summary type='text'>What a well written, compassionate article about male victims of spousal abuse.  Bravo!

Real Men Do Cry
The hidden pain:  domestic abuse targeted  toward men By Yvonne Dick, For The Calgary Herald November 15, 2010  
Real men don't hit women, but sometimes women  hit them. Jason Chivers (whose name has been changed to protect  his family)  is a middle-aged Calgary teacher of average build. At </summary><link rel='related' href='http://www.calgaryherald.com/news/Real/3828659/story.html' title='Real Men Do Cry'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/973638332056261196/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/11/real-men-do-cry.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/973638332056261196'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/973638332056261196'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/11/real-men-do-cry.html' title='Real Men Do Cry'/><author><name>Jan Brown</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05664863368651263544</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_NLsIEo5Kf5Q/TGMSBcyODhI/AAAAAAAAAAM/afGXjP3g4og/S220/JanB4CA.JPG'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-7477568842746179414</id><published>2010-10-31T16:32:00.008-04:00</published><updated>2010-11-01T10:28:02.898-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic abuse helpline'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='male victims'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='violence against women'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='abused men'/><title type='text'>Don't We All Want the Same Thing - Violence Free Homes</title><summary type='text'>In honor of National Domestic Violence Awareness Month the Co-Directors of DAHMW put together a press release/letter to the editor which read:&lt;!--[if gte mso 9]&gt;     Normal   0               false   false   false      EN-US   X-NONE   X-NONE                                                     MicrosoftInternetExplorer4                                                   &lt;![endif]--&gt;&lt;!--[if gte mso </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/7477568842746179414/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/10/all-mudslinging-aside-why-cant-everyone_31.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/7477568842746179414'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/7477568842746179414'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/10/all-mudslinging-aside-why-cant-everyone_31.html' title='Don&apos;t We All Want the Same Thing - Violence Free Homes'/><author><name>Jan Brown</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05664863368651263544</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_NLsIEo5Kf5Q/TGMSBcyODhI/AAAAAAAAAAM/afGXjP3g4og/S220/JanB4CA.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-3338245234726409032</id><published>2010-09-13T22:44:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2010-09-13T22:44:28.377-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='advocates'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic abuse helpline for men and women'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='division of public safety planning'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Mississippi'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='sexual abuse'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic violence'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='suicide'/><title type='text'>Mississippi Domestic Violence</title><summary type='text'>&lt;!--[if gte mso 9]&gt;     Normal   0                                 false   false   false      EN-US   X-NONE   X-NONE                                                                                                     &lt;![endif]--&gt;&lt;!--[if gte mso 9]&gt;</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/3338245234726409032/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/09/mississippi-domestic-violence.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/3338245234726409032'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/3338245234726409032'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/09/mississippi-domestic-violence.html' title='Mississippi Domestic Violence'/><author><name>Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men and Women</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09540842730444740948</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-7071255374307615628</id><published>2010-08-05T10:24:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2010-08-05T10:30:00.819-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='arrests of women'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='male victims'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic violence against men'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='abusive women'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='violent girls'/><title type='text'>Albany women arrested for domestic violence against men - WALB.com News, Weather and Sports for Albany, Valdosta and Thomasville. Leading the way for South Georgia. |</title><summary type='text'>Albany women arrested for domestic violence against men - WALB.com News, Weather and Sports for Albany, Valdosta and Thomasville. Leading the way for South Georgia. |

Comment:  This is one of the most open minded articles I have read on this subject.  No disclaimers of "although men perpetrate 95% of domestic violence and women are the victims in 98% of the cases," and "women are rarely violent </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/7071255374307615628/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/08/albany-women-arrested-for-domestic.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/7071255374307615628'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/7071255374307615628'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/08/albany-women-arrested-for-domestic.html' title='Albany women arrested for domestic violence against men - WALB.com News, Weather and Sports for Albany, Valdosta and Thomasville. Leading the way for South Georgia. |'/><author><name>Jan Brown</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05664863368651263544</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_NLsIEo5Kf5Q/TGMSBcyODhI/AAAAAAAAAAM/afGXjP3g4og/S220/JanB4CA.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-7796230970494156245</id><published>2010-07-17T15:33:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2010-07-17T15:33:41.397-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Macho victims of domestic violence</title><summary type='text'>An article sympathetic to male victims of domestic violence in Islamabad...the times they are a changin' 
Macho victims of domestic violence</summary><link rel='related' href='http://tribune.com.pk/story/28405/macho-victims-of-domestic-violence/?sms_ss=blogger' title='Macho victims of domestic violence'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/7796230970494156245/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/07/macho-victims-of-domestic-violence.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/7796230970494156245'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/7796230970494156245'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/07/macho-victims-of-domestic-violence.html' title='Macho victims of domestic violence'/><author><name>Jan Brown</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05664863368651263544</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_NLsIEo5Kf5Q/TGMSBcyODhI/AAAAAAAAAAM/afGXjP3g4og/S220/JanB4CA.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-1389841630134821813</id><published>2010-07-15T06:04:00.001-04:00</published><updated>2010-07-15T06:05:35.771-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Internet Savvy Volunteers Needed for August 2010</title><summary type='text'>The Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men and Women (DAHMW) is a volunteer directed national non profit agency that offers supportive services to and public awareness about under served victims of intimate partner violence.

We have just submitted an idea to the Pepsi Refresh Project (for more info visit their website at www.refresheverything.com). Pepsi is giving away millions to fund great ideas. </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/1389841630134821813/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/07/internet-savvy-volunteers-needed-for.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/1389841630134821813'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/1389841630134821813'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/07/internet-savvy-volunteers-needed-for.html' title='Internet Savvy Volunteers Needed for August 2010'/><author><name>Jan Brown</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05664863368651263544</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_NLsIEo5Kf5Q/TGMSBcyODhI/AAAAAAAAAAM/afGXjP3g4og/S220/JanB4CA.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-2260440951310853441</id><published>2010-07-06T12:54:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2010-07-06T12:54:46.685-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Not for Women Only: Male Victims of Domestic Violence - myOptumHealth</title><summary type='text'>Not for Women Only: Male Victims of Domestic Violence - myOptumHealth</summary><link rel='related' href='http://www.myoptumhealth.com/portal/Information/item/Not+for+Women+Only%3A+Male+Victims+of+Dom?archiveChannel=Home%2FHealth+Hubs%2FType2HealthHub%2FWomen%27s+Health%2FFeature&amp;remBrdCrumb=true' title='Not for Women Only: Male Victims of Domestic Violence - myOptumHealth'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/2260440951310853441/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/07/not-for-women-only-male-victims-of.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/2260440951310853441'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/2260440951310853441'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/07/not-for-women-only-male-victims-of.html' title='Not for Women Only: Male Victims of Domestic Violence - myOptumHealth'/><author><name>Jan Brown</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05664863368651263544</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_NLsIEo5Kf5Q/TGMSBcyODhI/AAAAAAAAAAM/afGXjP3g4og/S220/JanB4CA.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-2631105642829664302</id><published>2010-06-07T13:38:00.007-04:00</published><updated>2010-06-07T13:54:56.012-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='dads'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic abuse'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='sons'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='june 20'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='helping men'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='fathers day'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic violence against men'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='daughters'/><title type='text'>Honor Your Dad on Father's Day June 20th</title><summary type='text'>DOMESTIC ABUSE HELPLINE FOR MEN AND WOMEN FUNDRAISER
A great way to show dad you care is by donating to a cause that specializes in helping men. The DAHMW, 10 years old now, receives no federal or state funding. We have no paid employees. Our volunteers donated over 14,000 hours last year to keep our helpline running and bring public awareness to this issue. We rely solely on the generosity of </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/2631105642829664302/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/06/honor-your-dad-on-fathers-day-june-20th.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/2631105642829664302'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/2631105642829664302'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/06/honor-your-dad-on-fathers-day-june-20th.html' title='Honor Your Dad on Father&apos;s Day June 20th'/><author><name>Jan Brown</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05664863368651263544</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_NLsIEo5Kf5Q/TGMSBcyODhI/AAAAAAAAAAM/afGXjP3g4og/S220/JanB4CA.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-2722362918559743896</id><published>2010-06-07T12:41:00.010-04:00</published><updated>2010-06-07T14:08:26.631-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='group health research'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='news stories'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='media stereotypes'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='male victims'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='violent women'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic abuse'/><title type='text'>New Study Reveals Gender Stereotypes in Domestic Violence</title><summary type='text'>A Study done at the Arizona State University reiterates something I have said repeatedly over the last ten years, the media's portrayal of domestic violence hinders services for male victims as well as for women who are violent.  Thank you so much for doing this study, it's true progress in the making! 
In this pilot study participants were asked to look at news stories about domestic violence. </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/2722362918559743896/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/06/new-study-reveals-gender-stereotypes-in.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/2722362918559743896'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/2722362918559743896'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/06/new-study-reveals-gender-stereotypes-in.html' title='New Study Reveals Gender Stereotypes in Domestic Violence'/><author><name>Jan Brown</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05664863368651263544</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_NLsIEo5Kf5Q/TGMSBcyODhI/AAAAAAAAAAM/afGXjP3g4og/S220/JanB4CA.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-1620428776580017261</id><published>2010-05-31T11:30:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2010-05-31T11:30:49.884-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Male Victims of Domestic Violence – When HE is the Victim</title><summary type='text'>Male Victims of Domestic Violence – When HE is the Victim</summary><link rel='related' href='http://calltocommunion.com/male-victims-of-domestic-violence-when-he-is-the-victim/' title='Male Victims of Domestic Violence – When HE is the Victim'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/1620428776580017261/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/05/male-victims-of-domestic-violence-when.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/1620428776580017261'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/1620428776580017261'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/05/male-victims-of-domestic-violence-when.html' title='Male Victims of Domestic Violence – When HE is the Victim'/><author><name>Jan Brown</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05664863368651263544</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_NLsIEo5Kf5Q/TGMSBcyODhI/AAAAAAAAAAM/afGXjP3g4og/S220/JanB4CA.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-4855097497999160524</id><published>2010-05-30T11:04:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2010-05-30T11:04:52.694-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Not for Women Only: Male Victims of Domestic Violence - myOptumHealth</title><summary type='text'>Not for Women Only: Male Victims of Domestic Violence - myOptumHealth</summary><link rel='related' href='http://www.myoptumhealth.com/portal/Information/item/Not+for+Women+Only%3A+Male+Victims+of+Dom?archiveChannel=Home%2FHealth+Hubs%2FType1HealthHub%2FPain+Management%2FFeature%2FTopTopics&amp;remBrdCrumb=true' title='Not for Women Only: Male Victims of Domestic Violence - myOptumHealth'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/4855097497999160524/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/05/not-for-women-only-male-victims-of.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/4855097497999160524'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/4855097497999160524'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/05/not-for-women-only-male-victims-of.html' title='Not for Women Only: Male Victims of Domestic Violence - myOptumHealth'/><author><name>Jan Brown</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05664863368651263544</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_NLsIEo5Kf5Q/TGMSBcyODhI/AAAAAAAAAAM/afGXjP3g4og/S220/JanB4CA.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-2487185947417124769</id><published>2010-05-21T23:19:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2010-05-21T23:19:08.179-04:00</updated><title type='text'>KVOA.com | Tucson, Arizona Man struck with frying pan during domestic violence dispute</title><summary type='text'>KVOA.com | Tucson, Arizona Man struck with frying pan during domestic violence dispute</summary><link rel='related' href='http://www.kvoa.com/news/man-struck-with-frying-pan-during-domestic-violence-dispute/' title='KVOA.com | Tucson, Arizona Man struck with frying pan during domestic violence dispute'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/2487185947417124769/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/05/kvoacom-tucson-arizona-man-struck-with.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/2487185947417124769'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/2487185947417124769'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/05/kvoacom-tucson-arizona-man-struck-with.html' title='KVOA.com | Tucson, Arizona Man struck with frying pan during domestic violence dispute'/><author><name>Jan Brown</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05664863368651263544</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_NLsIEo5Kf5Q/TGMSBcyODhI/AAAAAAAAAAM/afGXjP3g4og/S220/JanB4CA.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-2397986511406181954</id><published>2010-05-18T15:40:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2010-05-18T15:40:05.370-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Tito Ortiz: celebrity justice or a sign that the USA is growing up?</title><summary type='text'>I am not writing about this situation because I have an advantage, but I can say that I have been there.  Tito Ortiz was taken to jail, and then weeks later, the police decided they didn’t have enough evidence to make a case against him.

If you haven’t heard about his situation yet, let me get you up to speed.

The Huntington Beach Police Department was sent to the home that Tito Ortiz (the </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/2397986511406181954/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/05/tito-ortiz-celebrity-justice-or-sign_1251.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/2397986511406181954'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/2397986511406181954'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/05/tito-ortiz-celebrity-justice-or-sign_1251.html' title='Tito Ortiz: celebrity justice or a sign that the USA is growing up?'/><author><name>Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men and Women</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09540842730444740948</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-8884463749542135367</id><published>2010-05-09T11:24:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2010-05-09T11:24:10.845-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Barbara Kay: Quebec offers a taste of Greek-style spending</title><summary type='text'>Barbara Kay: Quebec offers a taste of Greek-style spending

Posted:  May 07, 2010, 10:43 AM by NP Editor
Barbara Kay, quebec, social services

Quebec's debt according to the OECD standard method represents 94% of gross domestic product, lower only than Greece, Japan, Italy and (gulp) Iceland amongst developed nations (Canada's is 69.7%).

Nevertheless, Quebec's March budget blithely incorporated </summary><link rel='related' href='http://network.nationalpost.com/NP/blogs/fullcomment/archive/2010/05/07/barbara-kay-come-to-quebec-and-get-a-taste-of-greek-style-spending.aspx' title='Barbara Kay: Quebec offers a taste of Greek-style spending'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/8884463749542135367/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/05/barbara-kay-quebec-offers-taste-of.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/8884463749542135367'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/8884463749542135367'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/05/barbara-kay-quebec-offers-taste-of.html' title='Barbara Kay: Quebec offers a taste of Greek-style spending'/><author><name>Jan Brown</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05664863368651263544</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_NLsIEo5Kf5Q/TGMSBcyODhI/AAAAAAAAAAM/afGXjP3g4og/S220/JanB4CA.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-407172137284117460</id><published>2010-05-06T14:45:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2010-05-06T14:45:54.122-04:00</updated><title type='text'>AWARE Inc. dealing with employees in legal trouble | - MLive.com</title><summary type='text'>AWARE Inc. dealing with employees in legal trouble | - MLive.com</summary><link rel='related' href='http://www.mlive.com/news/jackson/index.ssf/2010/05/aware_inc_dealing_with_employe.html' title='AWARE Inc. dealing with employees in legal trouble | - MLive.com'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/407172137284117460/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/05/aware-inc-dealing-with-employees-in.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/407172137284117460'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/407172137284117460'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/05/aware-inc-dealing-with-employees-in.html' title='AWARE Inc. dealing with employees in legal trouble | - MLive.com'/><author><name>Jan Brown</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05664863368651263544</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_NLsIEo5Kf5Q/TGMSBcyODhI/AAAAAAAAAAM/afGXjP3g4og/S220/JanB4CA.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-7923454423863867906</id><published>2010-04-29T08:25:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2010-04-29T08:25:26.424-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Helpline launched for male victims of domestic violence - Press &amp; Journal</title><summary type='text'>Scotland gets it...when will the USA?

Helpline launched for male victims of domestic violence - Press &amp; Journal</summary><link rel='related' href='http://www.pressandjournal.co.uk/Article.aspx/1712122?UserKey=' title='Helpline launched for male victims of domestic violence - Press &amp; Journal'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/7923454423863867906/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/04/helpline-launched-for-male-victims-of.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/7923454423863867906'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/7923454423863867906'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/04/helpline-launched-for-male-victims-of.html' title='Helpline launched for male victims of domestic violence - Press &amp; Journal'/><author><name>Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men and Women</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09540842730444740948</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-1923272824537663862</id><published>2010-04-28T13:00:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2010-04-28T13:00:18.900-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Help for Men Who are Victims of Domestic Violence</title><summary type='text'>Help for Men Who are Victims of Domestic Violence</summary><link rel='related' href='http://marital-conflict-negotiation.suite101.com/article.cfm/help-for-men-who-are-victims-of-domestic-violence' title='Help for Men Who are Victims of Domestic Violence'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/1923272824537663862/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/04/help-for-men-who-are-victims-of.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/1923272824537663862'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/1923272824537663862'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/04/help-for-men-who-are-victims-of.html' title='Help for Men Who are Victims of Domestic Violence'/><author><name>Jan Brown</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05664863368651263544</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_NLsIEo5Kf5Q/TGMSBcyODhI/AAAAAAAAAAM/afGXjP3g4og/S220/JanB4CA.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-3442247770383541419</id><published>2010-04-26T15:16:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2010-04-26T15:19:35.891-04:00</updated><title type='text'></title><summary type='text'>DEAR ABBY: I know most of your readers are women, but could you please spread awareness of female-on-male domestic violence? You have done a great job with male-on-female abuse awareness, and I think American society is fairly well saturated with it. But there is little out there for men who have been or are being abused. -- MINNESOTA READER

DEAR READER: Domestic violence is not restricted to </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/3442247770383541419/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/04/dear-abby-i-know-most-of-your-readers.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/3442247770383541419'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/3442247770383541419'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/04/dear-abby-i-know-most-of-your-readers.html' title=''/><author><name>Jan Brown</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05664863368651263544</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_NLsIEo5Kf5Q/TGMSBcyODhI/AAAAAAAAAAM/afGXjP3g4og/S220/JanB4CA.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-1043622117500473602</id><published>2010-04-22T13:58:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2010-04-22T13:58:51.135-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Study examines domestic violence: thedailycougar.com</title><summary type='text'>Study examines domestic violence: thedailycougar.com

Study examines domestic violence
By Sarah Wiggins-Goff Published: Wednesday, April 21, 2010


UH doctoral candidate Venus Tsui, under the supervision of Monit Cheung, the doctoral dissertation chair at the Graduate School of Social Work, is conducting a survey of male victims of domestic violence in order to better understand the issue.

“It </summary><link rel='related' href='http://thedailycougar.com/2010/04/21/study-examines-domestic-violence/' title='Study examines domestic violence: thedailycougar.com'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/1043622117500473602/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/04/study-examines-domestic-violence.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/1043622117500473602'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/1043622117500473602'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/04/study-examines-domestic-violence.html' title='Study examines domestic violence: thedailycougar.com'/><author><name>Jan Brown</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05664863368651263544</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_NLsIEo5Kf5Q/TGMSBcyODhI/AAAAAAAAAAM/afGXjP3g4og/S220/JanB4CA.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-1668088395227584823</id><published>2010-04-21T12:20:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2010-04-21T12:20:44.391-04:00</updated><title type='text'>WEAVE fights traditional images of domestic violence offering men help from abusers | News10.net | Sacramento, California | News</title><summary type='text'>WEAVE fights traditional images of domestic violence offering men help from abusers

WEAVE fights traditional images of domestic violence offering men help from abusers | News10.net | Sacramento, California | News

SACRAMENTO, CA - When they first opened their doors and became incorporated in 1978, they likely had no idea how their role might evolve as a provider of crisis intervention services </summary><link rel='related' href='http://www.news10.net/news/story.aspx?storyid=79747&amp;catid=2&amp;sms_ss=blogger' title='WEAVE fights traditional images of domestic violence offering men help from abusers | News10.net | Sacramento, California | News'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/1668088395227584823/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/04/weave-fights-traditional-images-of.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/1668088395227584823'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/1668088395227584823'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/04/weave-fights-traditional-images-of.html' title='WEAVE fights traditional images of domestic violence offering men help from abusers | News10.net | Sacramento, California | News'/><author><name>Jan Brown</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05664863368651263544</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_NLsIEo5Kf5Q/TGMSBcyODhI/AAAAAAAAAAM/afGXjP3g4og/S220/JanB4CA.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-327208398681217975</id><published>2010-04-21T12:06:00.001-04:00</published><updated>2010-04-21T12:08:35.929-04:00</updated><title type='text'></title><summary type='text'>Response to Femi-Nothing: A human rights issue

http://www.thecollegianur.com/2010/04/15/response-to-femi-nothing-a-human-rights-issue/comment-page-1/

 By Lex Reynolds
Westhampton College '10

To quote: “What kills me about news reports on this issue is that they focus on what feminists think … Do people claim that the Holocaust was a Jewish issue or that slavery was an African issue? … This is </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/327208398681217975/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/04/httpwwwthecollegianurcom20100415respons.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/327208398681217975'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/327208398681217975'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/04/httpwwwthecollegianurcom20100415respons.html' title=''/><author><name>Jan Brown</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05664863368651263544</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_NLsIEo5Kf5Q/TGMSBcyODhI/AAAAAAAAAAM/afGXjP3g4og/S220/JanB4CA.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-387356994064831995</id><published>2010-04-13T08:48:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2010-04-13T08:48:45.357-04:00</updated><title type='text'>WXXI: Study Examines Relationship Violence in Deaf Community (2010-04-12)</title><summary type='text'>WXXI: Study Examines Relationship Violence in Deaf Community (2010-04-12)

ROCHESTER, NY (WXXI) - The RIT study compares incidences of relationship violence between Deaf and hearing students, and also delves into the experiences of gay and lesbian students.

But the most dramatic finding relates to men. Researchers found that of the four types of relationship violence that they studied, Deaf men </summary><link rel='related' href='http://www.publicbroadcasting.net/wxxi/news.newsmain/article/0/0/1635265/WXXI.Local.Stories/Study.Examines.Relationship.Violence.in.Deaf.Community' title='WXXI: Study Examines Relationship Violence in Deaf Community (2010-04-12)'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/387356994064831995/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/04/wxxi-study-examines-relationship.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/387356994064831995'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/387356994064831995'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/04/wxxi-study-examines-relationship.html' title='WXXI: Study Examines Relationship Violence in Deaf Community (2010-04-12)'/><author><name>Jan Brown</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05664863368651263544</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_NLsIEo5Kf5Q/TGMSBcyODhI/AAAAAAAAAAM/afGXjP3g4og/S220/JanB4CA.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-1453508642128373941</id><published>2010-04-08T07:30:00.001-04:00</published><updated>2010-04-08T07:41:12.941-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Beyond absurd: Analyzing the IPADV training guide</title><summary type='text'>Reading this article that Richard wrote about our (Maine) police officers training guide brings me back to the conference I went to when this training guide was just coming out. I left that conference feeling so sad and thinking that all good men who are in relationships should leave the State of Maine in a hurry if they don't want to end up in jail just for being MEN.

Beyond absurd: Analyzing </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/1453508642128373941/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/04/beyond-absurd-analyzing-ipadv-training.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/1453508642128373941'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/1453508642128373941'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/04/beyond-absurd-analyzing-ipadv-training.html' title='Beyond absurd: Analyzing the IPADV training guide'/><author><name>Jan Brown</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05664863368651263544</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_NLsIEo5Kf5Q/TGMSBcyODhI/AAAAAAAAAAM/afGXjP3g4og/S220/JanB4CA.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-478658171192562215</id><published>2010-04-06T19:26:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2010-04-06T19:26:55.181-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Domestic Abuse Makes Your Penis Fall Off? - Ad screws up pitch to abused men</title><summary type='text'>Domestic Abuse Makes Your Penis Fall Off? - Ad screws up pitch to abused men</summary><link rel='related' href='http://www.newser.com/story/84941/domestic-abuse-makes-your-penis-fall-off.html' title='Domestic Abuse Makes Your Penis Fall Off? - Ad screws up pitch to abused men'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/478658171192562215/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/04/domestic-abuse-makes-your-penis-fall.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/478658171192562215'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/478658171192562215'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/04/domestic-abuse-makes-your-penis-fall.html' title='Domestic Abuse Makes Your Penis Fall Off? - Ad screws up pitch to abused men'/><author><name>Jan Brown</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05664863368651263544</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_NLsIEo5Kf5Q/TGMSBcyODhI/AAAAAAAAAAM/afGXjP3g4og/S220/JanB4CA.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-2855430988776093817</id><published>2010-03-30T10:02:00.037-04:00</published><updated>2010-03-30T11:01:41.201-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic abuse helpline for men and women'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='services for male victims'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='male victims'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic abuse'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic violence against men'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='abused men'/><title type='text'>Does Anyone Else Find This Offensive to Male Victims?</title><summary type='text'>I just read about a campaign over in London that is meant to bring more awareness of male victims of domestic abuse.  I think it's wonderful that they are trying to bring more heighten  awareness to the fact that "one man dies as a result of domestic abuse every three weeks." click here to read the article   However, I find the campaign offensive to male victims.  The campaign uses an image of a </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/2855430988776093817/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/03/does-anyone-else-find-this-offensive-to.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/2855430988776093817'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/2855430988776093817'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/03/does-anyone-else-find-this-offensive-to.html' title='Does Anyone Else Find This Offensive to Male Victims?'/><author><name>Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men and Women</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09540842730444740948</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-1699997662808741543</id><published>2010-03-29T14:22:00.010-04:00</published><updated>2010-03-29T14:32:29.894-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='abused men and women'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='services for male victims'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='same-sex relationships'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='transgender'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='LGBT'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='gays and lesbians'/><title type='text'></title><summary type='text'>LGBTQ Crime Victims Neglected by Nation's Victim Support System,

Says Landmark Report

Washington, DC---The National Center for Victims of Crime and the National Coalition of Anti-Violence Programs today released Why It Matters: Rethinking Victim Assistance for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender and Queer Victims of Hate Violence and Intimate Partner Violence.  This groundbreaking report, the </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/1699997662808741543/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/03/lgbtq-crime-victims-neglected-by.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/1699997662808741543'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/1699997662808741543'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/03/lgbtq-crime-victims-neglected-by.html' title=''/><author><name>Jan Brown</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05664863368651263544</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_NLsIEo5Kf5Q/TGMSBcyODhI/AAAAAAAAAAM/afGXjP3g4og/S220/JanB4CA.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-2489047143004728463</id><published>2010-03-29T13:57:00.008-04:00</published><updated>2010-03-29T14:16:58.363-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='violence against men'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic assault'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='abused men and women'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='emotional abuse'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='abusive relationships'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic abuse'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='dahmw'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='abused men'/><title type='text'></title><summary type='text'>  	 	 		 /*&lt;![CDATA[ */ var myStat_js=1;var myStat_ver='2.6';var js_version= 'myStat_js=1;';js_version += 'myStat_js=1.1;';js_version += 'myStat_js=1.2;';js_version += 'myStat_js=1.3;';js_version += 'myStat_js=1.4;';js_version += 'myStat_js=1.5;';js_version += 'myStat_js=1.6;';document.write(js_version);var myStat_flash='';if (navigator.plugins &amp;&amp; navigator.plugins.length) {for (var ii=0;ii=2;ii-</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/2489047143004728463/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/03/cdata-var-mystatjs1var-mystatver2.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/2489047143004728463'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/2489047143004728463'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/03/cdata-var-mystatjs1var-mystatver2.html' title=''/><author><name>Jan Brown</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05664863368651263544</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_NLsIEo5Kf5Q/TGMSBcyODhI/AAAAAAAAAAM/afGXjP3g4og/S220/JanB4CA.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-6963175214785654746</id><published>2010-03-24T13:36:00.001-04:00</published><updated>2010-03-24T13:39:19.093-04:00</updated><title type='text'>IGive.com Fund Raiser Challenge Update</title><summary type='text'>Only two people (donation= $2 to DAHMW) have signed up so far...there is still $4,817.00 up for grabs in this challenge..please help us!

See below for hyperlink to get involved.  Thanks</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/6963175214785654746/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/03/igivecom-fund-raiser-challenge.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/6963175214785654746'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/6963175214785654746'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/03/igivecom-fund-raiser-challenge.html' title='IGive.com Fund Raiser Challenge Update'/><author><name>Jan Brown</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05664863368651263544</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_NLsIEo5Kf5Q/TGMSBcyODhI/AAAAAAAAAAM/afGXjP3g4og/S220/JanB4CA.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-3462580096663895006</id><published>2010-03-23T17:01:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2010-03-23T17:08:14.995-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Help DAHMW - takes 5 minutes or less and no donation required</title><summary type='text'>Dear Supporters and Friends of DAHMW,

Once again IGive.com is  giving away $5,000  to charities that are part of their community... .$1.00 at a time.  The  challenge starts Wednesday, March 24,
2010 at 12pm CST.  For each new member that signs  up (free) and does just one web search on their site (free again!)  IGive.com will donate one dollar to the cause.   Although the challenge lasts up to </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/3462580096663895006/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/03/help-dahmw-takes-5-minutes-or-less-and.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/3462580096663895006'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/3462580096663895006'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/03/help-dahmw-takes-5-minutes-or-less-and.html' title='Help DAHMW - takes 5 minutes or less and no donation required'/><author><name>Jan Brown</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05664863368651263544</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_NLsIEo5Kf5Q/TGMSBcyODhI/AAAAAAAAAAM/afGXjP3g4og/S220/JanB4CA.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-7838426418230928075</id><published>2010-03-22T12:00:00.001-04:00</published><updated>2010-03-22T12:02:13.294-04:00</updated><title type='text'></title><summary type='text'>Children Of Abused Men - Family Violence From The Eyes And Hearts Of Battered MenBy: Dr Jeanne King PhD
There is a plethora of information on the Internet and in the media about violence against women. And for the gentleman being abused, finding relevant, accurate insight and advice is like finding a needle in a haystack.

Even harder for abused men is finding answers for the questions they have </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/7838426418230928075/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/03/children-of-abused-men-family-violence.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/7838426418230928075'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/7838426418230928075'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/03/children-of-abused-men-family-violence.html' title=''/><author><name>Jan Brown</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05664863368651263544</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_NLsIEo5Kf5Q/TGMSBcyODhI/AAAAAAAAAAM/afGXjP3g4og/S220/JanB4CA.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-5826621499236034541</id><published>2010-03-20T09:56:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2010-03-20T09:59:23.057-04:00</updated><title type='text'></title><summary type='text'>Study shows 33% of  Domestic Violence Victims are Male
  Former 'CSI' star Gary Dourdan's girlfriend was arrested on March 16  after allegedly assaulting the actor.  Maria Asis del Alamo was released  the same day on $20,000 bail. Her court date is set for April  6.  Several outlets are making light of the situation, being that a man  was assaulted by a woman.   Statistics show that female to </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/5826621499236034541/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/03/study-shows-33-of-domestic-violence.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/5826621499236034541'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/5826621499236034541'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/03/study-shows-33-of-domestic-violence.html' title=''/><author><name>Jan Brown</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05664863368651263544</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_NLsIEo5Kf5Q/TGMSBcyODhI/AAAAAAAAAAM/afGXjP3g4og/S220/JanB4CA.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-2228681967492159561</id><published>2010-03-17T15:38:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2010-03-17T15:40:26.825-04:00</updated><title type='text'></title><summary type='text'>Precious Love: An Angel for the AbusedBY KEVIN STANLEY
 A recent study stated that there were 79,874 reported cases of domestic violence in the United States in 2009, up over 7,000 cases from the previous year, and up 13,000 cases from 2007. The profile of a victim of domestic violence—traditionally thought of as a younger female—is rapidly changing.    In a surprising trend, as many as 40% of </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/2228681967492159561/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/03/precious-love-angel-for-abused-by-kevin.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/2228681967492159561'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/2228681967492159561'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/03/precious-love-angel-for-abused-by-kevin.html' title=''/><author><name>Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men and Women</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09540842730444740948</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-5045814211652337945</id><published>2010-03-16T09:37:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2010-03-16T09:39:29.489-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Male victim's of workplace sexual harrassment</title><summary type='text'>FYI from SAVE-Fox News is planning to do a story on male victims of workplace sexual harassment. If you know of a male victim who is willing to be interviewed on this topic, please have him contact Ben Evansky at ben.evansky@foxnews.com   </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/5045814211652337945/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/03/male-victims-of-workplace-sexual.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/5045814211652337945'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/5045814211652337945'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/03/male-victims-of-workplace-sexual.html' title='Male victim&apos;s of workplace sexual harrassment'/><author><name>Jan Brown</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05664863368651263544</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_NLsIEo5Kf5Q/TGMSBcyODhI/AAAAAAAAAAM/afGXjP3g4og/S220/JanB4CA.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-2071039840740531082</id><published>2010-03-15T16:12:00.005-04:00</published><updated>2010-03-15T16:16:49.806-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Blog Talk Radio - Special show dedicated to Men Survivors of Domestic Violence</title><summary type='text'>Too often is this topic overlooked, so Kathleen had a full panel of experts sharing insight on Men Survivors of Domestic Violence, but also how their services are helping men rebuild their lives.    Her special guests included:   Donna Savage, author of "The Bood &amp; Tears of Domestic Violence" and founder of The Word for Life, a nonprofit organization for domestic violence and AIDS awareness. </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/2071039840740531082/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/03/blog-talk-radio-special-show-dedicated.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/2071039840740531082'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/2071039840740531082'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/03/blog-talk-radio-special-show-dedicated.html' title='Blog Talk Radio - Special show dedicated to Men Survivors of Domestic Violence'/><author><name>Jan Brown</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05664863368651263544</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_NLsIEo5Kf5Q/TGMSBcyODhI/AAAAAAAAAAM/afGXjP3g4og/S220/JanB4CA.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-568083492288453819</id><published>2010-03-15T11:58:00.005-04:00</published><updated>2010-03-15T13:13:14.385-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Looking for Male Victims of Domestic Abuse's True Stories</title><summary type='text'>From David Fitzpatrick's:
As part of my job with a newspaper, I        interviewed Jan Brown, who runs the Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men and        Women. This toll-free, national helpline is run here in Maine, and is the        only one of its kind. I was astonished to learn that, despite the numbers        we often hear, male victims of abuse by intimate partners is far higher        than </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/568083492288453819/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/03/looking-for-male-victims-of-domestic.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/568083492288453819'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/568083492288453819'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/03/looking-for-male-victims-of-domestic.html' title='Looking for Male Victims of Domestic Abuse&apos;s True Stories'/><author><name>Jan Brown</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05664863368651263544</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_NLsIEo5Kf5Q/TGMSBcyODhI/AAAAAAAAAAM/afGXjP3g4og/S220/JanB4CA.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-5924496443768610882</id><published>2010-03-13T14:21:00.002-05:00</published><updated>2010-03-13T14:26:35.089-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='male victims'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic abuse'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic violence against men'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='abused men'/><title type='text'></title><summary type='text'>Hobbes In The House/male Victims Of Domestic Abuse -- It HappensMN Spokesman-Recorder Domestic abuse against men – it happens. You're going to have a hard finding statistics, because reluctant as many women are to report abusive husbands or boyfriends to the authorities, out of fear of his retaliation or because they've been conditioned to accept the abuse – men are even less likely to pick up </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/5924496443768610882/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/03/hobbes-in-housemale-victims-of-domestic.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/5924496443768610882'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/5924496443768610882'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/03/hobbes-in-housemale-victims-of-domestic.html' title=''/><author><name>Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men and Women</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09540842730444740948</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-6377910737900653330</id><published>2010-03-13T13:26:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2010-03-13T14:18:44.301-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Men also can be victims of spousal abuse</title><summary type='text'>Men also can be victims of spousal abuse

6:28 PM Friday, February 26, 2010                                  Recently, my wife and I attended a fundraiser for Artemis, an advocate organization for abused women. My dinner partner was a staff member of Artemis and I asked her if there is a local or national organization that is an advocate for men who are abused by their wives. She informed me that</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/6377910737900653330/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/03/men-also-can-be-victims-of-spousal.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/6377910737900653330'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/6377910737900653330'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/03/men-also-can-be-victims-of-spousal.html' title='Men also can be victims of spousal abuse'/><author><name>Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men and Women</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09540842730444740948</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-5779048187482211480</id><published>2010-03-13T13:12:00.002-05:00</published><updated>2010-03-13T13:18:36.050-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Treatment for Violence Among Couples Should Consider Both Male and Female Offenders, Substance Abuse and the Choice to Stay Together</title><summary type='text'>Treatment for Violence Among Couples Should Consider Both Male and Female Offenders, Substance Abuse and the Choice to Stay Together

Effectively treating violence among couples should encompass more than treating men separately for power and control issues, according to a Kansas State University expert.
Manhattan, KS - infoZine - Sandra Stith, a professor of family studies and human services, is</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/5779048187482211480/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/03/treatment-for-violence-among-couples.html#comment-form' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/5779048187482211480'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/5779048187482211480'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/03/treatment-for-violence-among-couples.html' title='Treatment for Violence Among Couples Should Consider Both Male and Female Offenders, Substance Abuse and the Choice to Stay Together'/><author><name>Jan Brown</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05664863368651263544</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_NLsIEo5Kf5Q/TGMSBcyODhI/AAAAAAAAAAM/afGXjP3g4og/S220/JanB4CA.JPG'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-1219769213168862437</id><published>2010-02-03T16:05:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2010-02-03T16:07:17.680-05:00</updated><title type='text'>A Hidden Crime: Domestic Violence Against Men Is a Growing Problem</title><summary type='text'>by Bruce Watson

Amid the media frenzy over Tiger Woods and Bengals receiver Chris Henry, a key aspect of both stories slipped through the cracks: Like millions of other men, Woods and Henry were -- allegedly at least -- the victims of domestic violence perpetrated by their wives or girlfriends. Beyond its brutal physical and psychological costs, domestic violence against men exacts a cruel </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/1219769213168862437/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/02/hidden-crime-domestic-violence-against.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/1219769213168862437'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/1219769213168862437'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/02/hidden-crime-domestic-violence-against.html' title='A Hidden Crime: Domestic Violence Against Men Is a Growing Problem'/><author><name>Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men and Women</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09540842730444740948</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-3663049408301626130</id><published>2010-02-03T16:00:00.003-05:00</published><updated>2010-02-03T16:03:43.047-05:00</updated><title type='text'>In Maine, it doesn't pay to be a man</title><summary type='text'>February 1, 2010
In Maine, it doesn't pay to be a man
By Carey Roberts
http://www.renewamerica.com/columns/roberts/100201

Practically everyone in town knows Amy Dugas is a serial batterer. But the Maine criminal justice system keeps finding ways to keep her from facing the music.

In 2004 Amy assaulted her husband Mark in their home in Waldoboro. When the police officer came to arrest her, she </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/3663049408301626130/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/02/in-maine-it-doesnt-pay-to-be-man.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/3663049408301626130'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/3663049408301626130'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2010/02/in-maine-it-doesnt-pay-to-be-man.html' title='In Maine, it doesn&apos;t pay to be a man'/><author><name>Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men and Women</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09540842730444740948</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-3768790731062743916</id><published>2009-12-10T13:38:00.003-05:00</published><updated>2009-12-10T13:44:58.347-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Why haven’t we heard more about battered men?</title><summary type='text'>Few people realize that women abuse men, why is that? According to Betsy Lucal[1] in order to bring attention to a social problem a number of factors must come together. There must be a social movement, professional and mass media attention and appropriate gender images.

The movement that defined domestic violence was encompassed within the feminist movement. This movement in the 70s helped to </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/3768790731062743916/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2009/12/why-havent-we-heard-more-about-battered.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/3768790731062743916'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/3768790731062743916'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2009/12/why-havent-we-heard-more-about-battered.html' title='Why haven’t we heard more about battered men?'/><author><name>Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men and Women</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09540842730444740948</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-2819535933174089263</id><published>2009-10-31T18:50:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2009-10-31T18:53:12.843-04:00</updated><title type='text'></title><summary type='text'>HAPPY ANNIVERSARY TO THE DOMESTIC ABUSE HELPLINE FOR MEN AND WOMEN      The Domestic Abuse Helpline (DAHMW) celebrates an anniversary! The DAHMW celebrates nine years of offering supportive services to victims, survivors, concerned family members and friends as well as bringing public attention to the needs of victims of domestic violence today!
DAHMW does not have any paid staff so it is only </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/2819535933174089263/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2009/10/happy-anniversary-to-domestic-abuse.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/2819535933174089263'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/2819535933174089263'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2009/10/happy-anniversary-to-domestic-abuse.html' title=''/><author><name>Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men and Women</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09540842730444740948</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-5393851932093534490</id><published>2009-10-31T18:44:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2009-10-31T18:48:12.136-04:00</updated><title type='text'></title><summary type='text'>Wells woman jailed for life for killing husband by setting him on fireBy Steve Bodnar             sbodnar@seacoastonline.com  October 29, 2009 5:14 PM                         ALFRED, Maine — Kimberly Spampinato gave little reaction Thrusday in York County Superior Court when sentenced to life in prison for killing her husband, but tearful sorrow was seen among family members of the murder </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/5393851932093534490/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2009/10/wells-woman-jailed-for-life-for-killing.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/5393851932093534490'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/5393851932093534490'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2009/10/wells-woman-jailed-for-life-for-killing.html' title=''/><author><name>Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men and Women</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09540842730444740948</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-6462539475215591988</id><published>2009-10-08T14:11:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2009-10-08T14:14:10.558-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men &amp; Women is in America's Giving Challenge—Let's win $50,000!</title><summary type='text'>Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men &amp; Women is in America's Giving Challenge—Let's win $50,000!        Hi   everyone, 

Our   cause   just   entered   in   America's   Giving   Challenge,   which   gives   us   a   chance   to   win   $50,000! 

Please   donate   today:    http://www.causes.com/donations/...   

To win, between now and November 7th we have to get the most donations to our cause (</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/6462539475215591988/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2009/10/domestic-abuse-helpline-for-men-women.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/6462539475215591988'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/6462539475215591988'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2009/10/domestic-abuse-helpline-for-men-women.html' title='Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men &amp; Women is in America&apos;s Giving Challenge—Let&apos;s win $50,000!'/><author><name>Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men and Women</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09540842730444740948</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-7728354696435143091</id><published>2009-09-24T14:19:00.008-04:00</published><updated>2009-09-24T14:28:43.346-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='resources'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='services for male victims'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='abusive relationships'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic abuse'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic violence'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='abused men'/><title type='text'>Interview with Jan Brown</title><summary type='text'> Interview with Jan Brown: Founder of the Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men and Women - Part OneSeptember 18, 9:31 AMTucson Abusive Relationships ExaminerKayla Wardlow

http://www.examiner.com/x-20557-Tucson-Abusive-Relationships-Examiner~y2009m9d18-Interview-with-Jan-Brown-Founder-of-the-Domestic-Abuse-Helpline-for-Men-and-Women--Part-One
    Interview with Jan Brown: Founder of the Domestic Abuse</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/7728354696435143091/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2009/09/interview-with-jan-brown.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/7728354696435143091'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/7728354696435143091'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2009/09/interview-with-jan-brown.html' title='Interview with Jan Brown'/><author><name>Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men and Women</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09540842730444740948</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-1512413298087492890</id><published>2009-02-26T12:35:00.004-05:00</published><updated>2009-02-26T12:40:53.474-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Woman Arrested for Unwanted Hugging</title><summary type='text'> Brooksville, Florida - The Hernando County Sheriff's Office says they arrested a Brooksville woman for giving an unwanted hug. Deputies say they responded to the home of Lori Smith and Kevin Connelly shortly after midnight Monday. When they got there, deputies say Lori told them she tried to hug Kevin twice, however he pushed her away because he did not wish to be hugged. Kevin claims Lori </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/1512413298087492890/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2009/02/woman-arrested-for-unwanted-hugging.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/1512413298087492890'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/1512413298087492890'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2009/02/woman-arrested-for-unwanted-hugging.html' title='Woman Arrested for Unwanted Hugging'/><author><name>Jan Brown</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05664863368651263544</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_NLsIEo5Kf5Q/TGMSBcyODhI/AAAAAAAAAAM/afGXjP3g4og/S220/JanB4CA.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-6798275881951046440</id><published>2009-02-25T10:09:00.005-05:00</published><updated>2009-02-25T12:06:50.564-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Domestic violence: Men are victims of abuse, too</title><summary type='text'> Domestic violence:  Men are victims of abuse, too

BY DOUG HARLOW
Staff Writer   
02/22/2009   HARMONY -- Every 21 seconds, somewhere in America a woman is raped or battered, according to a November 2000 Department of Justice report on the National Violence Against Women survey.  And every 38 seconds, somewhere in America a man is battered or raped by his intimate partner.  An estimated 1.5 </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/6798275881951046440/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2009/02/domestic-violence-men-are-victims-of.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/6798275881951046440'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/6798275881951046440'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2009/02/domestic-violence-men-are-victims-of.html' title='Domestic violence: Men are victims of abuse, too'/><author><name>Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men and Women</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09540842730444740948</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-2791275929934366166</id><published>2009-02-25T09:44:00.008-05:00</published><updated>2009-02-25T12:08:56.930-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Petition to gauge the public's views on domestic violence victim's services</title><summary type='text'>I have noticed over the last two years that the subject of female on male perpetrated domestic violence appears to be "less vehemently opposed" and has become more "accepted as self evident" by society.  For this reason I thought it was time to formally gauge the public's views on services for victims.

To sign the petition click here

Here is the wording from the petition:

For decades domestic </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/2791275929934366166/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2009/02/petition-to-gauge-publics-views-on.html#comment-form' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/2791275929934366166'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/2791275929934366166'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2009/02/petition-to-gauge-publics-views-on.html' title='Petition to gauge the public&apos;s views on domestic violence victim&apos;s services'/><author><name>Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men and Women</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09540842730444740948</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-6354830819951344215</id><published>2009-02-13T08:50:00.004-05:00</published><updated>2009-02-13T09:20:00.928-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Participation is needed for a study on domestic violence against men</title><summary type='text'>A lack of research and a drive to create awareness that men, too experience domestic abuse, has prompted Kathleen Kline, a doctoral candidate with Walden University School of Psychology, to conduct a study on male and female victims of dating violence in both heterosexual and same-sex relationships among college students.

If you’d like to participate in this study, you must fit into the </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/6354830819951344215/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2009/02/participation-is-needed-for-study-on.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/6354830819951344215'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/6354830819951344215'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2009/02/participation-is-needed-for-study-on.html' title='Participation is needed for a study on domestic violence against men'/><author><name>Katrina Gibson</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='25' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_w2VYxxJDiis/SQtWa7rnwsI/AAAAAAAAAGg/UsXwBj4XSOw/S220/Kat+smile+and+nita.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-6561529495030137831</id><published>2008-10-18T19:34:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2008-10-18T19:35:14.925-04:00</updated><title type='text'>California Appellate Court Finds Law Discriminatory Against Abused Men</title><summary type='text'>A recent ruling of the California Appellate Court found that California domestic violence laws violate battered men's rights because they provide state funding only for women and their children who use shelters and other programs. Finally! Common sense wins out over ideology.

Our agency specializes in working with men who are in relationships with abusive women so the question of why domestic </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/6561529495030137831/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2008/10/recent-ruling-of-california-appellate.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/6561529495030137831'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/6561529495030137831'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2008/10/recent-ruling-of-california-appellate.html' title='California Appellate Court Finds Law Discriminatory Against Abused Men'/><author><name>Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men and Women</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09540842730444740948</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-2746508531625336301</id><published>2008-10-07T09:33:00.023-04:00</published><updated>2008-10-07T12:59:54.210-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Suicide Caused by Domestic Violence in India</title><summary type='text'>Police invoke Domestic Violence Act in suicide case 
4 Oct 2008, 0247 hrs IST,               Asseem Shaikh,TNN

Pune, India.  A woman committed suicide by jumping off her sixth-floor apartment building after pushing her two daughters, ages 5 and 4 years, to their death ahead of her.  The deceased woman's husband, his brother, and a young woman friend of theirs have all been arrested and charged </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/2746508531625336301/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2008/10/suicide-caused-by-domestic-violence-in.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/2746508531625336301'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/2746508531625336301'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2008/10/suicide-caused-by-domestic-violence-in.html' title='Suicide Caused by Domestic Violence in India'/><author><name>Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men and Women</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09540842730444740948</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-1360816788199985214</id><published>2008-10-06T16:42:00.046-04:00</published><updated>2008-10-07T09:29:21.690-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='intimate partner abuse'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='abused men and women'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic violence awareness'/><title type='text'>October is National Domestic Violence Awareness Month</title><summary type='text'>October is National Domestic Violence Awareness Month - Are You Aware?

It's that time again, time for thousands of newspaper articles across the country that will educate and enlighten readers about domestic violence.  However, the main theme of most if not all of these articles will be on violence against women by men as it has been for the last few decades.  So if you are suffering from </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/1360816788199985214/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2008/10/october-is-national-domestic-violence.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/1360816788199985214'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/1360816788199985214'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2008/10/october-is-national-domestic-violence.html' title='October is National Domestic Violence Awareness Month'/><author><name>Jan Brown</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05664863368651263544</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_NLsIEo5Kf5Q/TGMSBcyODhI/AAAAAAAAAAM/afGXjP3g4og/S220/JanB4CA.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-6695470450139612459</id><published>2008-09-11T11:23:00.043-04:00</published><updated>2008-09-27T19:07:26.440-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='services for male victims'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic abuse'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic violence against men'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='abused men'/><title type='text'>Domestic Violence Victims Services and the Male Heterosexual Victim</title><summary type='text'>Having been an advocate for victims of domestic abuse for over a decade I have done my homework with regard to what services are available for men abused by women.  The question, "What services do battered women's shelter programs offer male victims?" has come up more times then I can count over the years. I consider myself somewhat of an expert on the issue having called, emailed and faxed a </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/6695470450139612459/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2008/09/domestic-violence-victims-services-and.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/6695470450139612459'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/6695470450139612459'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2008/09/domestic-violence-victims-services-and.html' title='Domestic Violence Victims Services and the Male Heterosexual Victim'/><author><name>Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men and Women</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09540842730444740948</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-2503700393557510996</id><published>2008-09-03T13:37:00.029-04:00</published><updated>2008-09-03T15:11:02.388-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='violence against women'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic violence'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='mutual abuse'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='hotline'/><title type='text'>Any given day on the helpline</title><summary type='text'>A variety of calls come into a toll free domestic abuse helpline...here is a sampling of today's:

A 24 year old woman today  called to talk about a recent situation with her "newly" ex boyfriend.  She said that she had sent her boyfriend "packing" a couple of days ago because he had gotten aggressive with her.  Well Bravo for you sister! She set a healthy boundary and made her abusive </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/2503700393557510996/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2008/09/any-given-day-on-helpline.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/2503700393557510996'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/2503700393557510996'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2008/09/any-given-day-on-helpline.html' title='Any given day on the helpline'/><author><name>Jan Brown</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05664863368651263544</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_NLsIEo5Kf5Q/TGMSBcyODhI/AAAAAAAAAAM/afGXjP3g4og/S220/JanB4CA.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-789154672225502085</id><published>2008-08-13T11:50:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2008-08-24T13:15:56.044-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='same-sex relationships'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic violence'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='gays and lesbians'/><title type='text'>Same-sex relationships face domestic violence too</title><summary type='text'>A recent article in the Natchez Democrat newspaper out of Mississippi discusses the fact that lesbians and gay men face domestic violence in their relationships just as heterosexuals do.  Experts believe that the problem may be even more common in same-sex relationships.

Domestic violence in same-sex relationships has many similarities to heterosexual violent relationships; the abuse can be </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/789154672225502085/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2008/08/same-sex-relationships-face-domestic.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/789154672225502085'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/789154672225502085'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2008/08/same-sex-relationships-face-domestic.html' title='Same-sex relationships face domestic violence too'/><author><name>Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men and Women</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09540842730444740948</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-5287098379491413988</id><published>2008-07-30T16:05:00.001-04:00</published><updated>2008-08-24T13:10:42.431-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic assault'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='abused boys'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='celebrities'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='male victims'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='civil court'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='chris nagle'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic violence against men'/><title type='text'>Country singer Chris Nagle found not guilty of domestic violence</title><summary type='text'>Back in May of this year Chris Nagle AND Jennifer Tant were arrested after the police were called to Nagle's home on a domestic dispute. Both Nagle and Tant were alleged to be drunk at the time. The story they both told was that Tant struck Nagle in the head with a "weapon" i.e. umbrella and Nagle then pushed her away to protect himself from further abuse (for more of the story read my previous </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/5287098379491413988/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2008/07/country-singer-chris-nagle-found-not.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/5287098379491413988'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/5287098379491413988'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2008/07/country-singer-chris-nagle-found-not.html' title='Country singer Chris Nagle found not guilty of domestic violence'/><author><name>Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men and Women</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09540842730444740948</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-2242059195088033592</id><published>2008-06-27T18:58:00.001-04:00</published><updated>2008-08-24T13:12:27.387-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='arrested'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic assault'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='partner abuse'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic violence'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Maine'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='conviction'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='partner violence'/><title type='text'>Man to Serve 9 Months in Jail for Wife Visiting Him in Jail</title><summary type='text'>Marshall Crandall IV is either the most in love guy or the dumbest guy on the planet, but does he deserve jail time for his wife coming to visit him when he was in the county jail? Evidently yes.... Marshall Crandall of Vassalboro, Maine was sentence to nine months jail time this week after pleading guilty (not surprising given the "advice" accused guys are given by their attorney's....) to three</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/2242059195088033592/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2008/06/man-to-serve-9-months-in-jail-for-wife.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/2242059195088033592'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/2242059195088033592'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2008/06/man-to-serve-9-months-in-jail-for-wife.html' title='Man to Serve 9 Months in Jail for Wife Visiting Him in Jail'/><author><name>Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men and Women</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09540842730444740948</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-820648895780798816</id><published>2008-05-29T10:50:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2008-08-24T13:15:14.528-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic assault'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='men with violence women'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='celebrities in the news'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic violence'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic violence against men'/><title type='text'>Domestic Assault In the News</title><summary type='text'>Country music singer Chris Cagle and his girlfriend Jennifer Tant got into a verbal argument that turned into what has been called a drunken brawl a few weeks ago. Tant hit Cagle in the head with an umbrella [could be consider a dangerous weapon...it has a pointy thing at the top that could poke your eye out] and Cagle retaliated (some would say defended himself) by hitting Tant with her own </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/820648895780798816/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2008/05/domestic-assault-in-news.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/820648895780798816'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/820648895780798816'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2008/05/domestic-assault-in-news.html' title='Domestic Assault In the News'/><author><name>Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men and Women</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09540842730444740948</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-3053455469444865490</id><published>2008-05-19T20:29:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2008-08-24T13:21:08.367-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='group health research'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='research'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='violent women'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic abuse'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='myths about abused men'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic violence against men'/><title type='text'>Group Health Center for Health Study finds that Men experience domestic violence, with health impact</title><summary type='text'>From the Home office:

A press release on May 19, 2008 on a study done about abuse of men indicates that domestic violence can happen to men, and that domestic violence against men is under - studied and often hidden. This study also debunks five of myths about abuse of men.

See our website for other myths.  It's great to see this research get media attention as that helps to promote public </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/3053455469444865490/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2008/05/group-health-center-for-health-study.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/3053455469444865490'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/3053455469444865490'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2008/05/group-health-center-for-health-study.html' title='Group Health Center for Health Study finds that Men experience domestic violence, with health impact'/><author><name>Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men and Women</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09540842730444740948</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-8050269645548551722</id><published>2008-05-05T15:34:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2008-05-05T15:37:42.774-04:00</updated><title type='text'>We're still ignoring abused straight men</title><summary type='text'>From the National Post:

What Canadians would know if the article was better researched is that men are almost equally likely to be assaulted by their female partners, and that children are statistically more likely to be abused or killed by their mothers than fathers.
Homophobia is presented as a serious social problem: “[T]here is real concern that talking publicly about troubled relationships </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/8050269645548551722/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2008/05/were-still-ignoring-abused-straight-men.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/8050269645548551722'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/8050269645548551722'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2008/05/were-still-ignoring-abused-straight-men.html' title='We&apos;re still ignoring abused straight men'/><author><name>Trudy W Schuett</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-6677067356192296244</id><published>2008-03-30T16:28:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2008-03-30T21:58:36.030-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic abuse helpline for men and women'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='abused boys'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='male victims'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic abuse'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic violence men'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic violence against men'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='abused men'/><title type='text'>Lies By Omission, An Open Letter to Congress re DV Awareness Month by R. Davis</title><summary type='text'>The Lies By Omission, An Open Letter to Congress regarding Domestic Violence Awareness Month March 28, 2008 

The Lies by Omission

Chapter 12 of Domestic Violence: Intervention, Prevention, Policies, and Solutions is an open letter to the members of the U.S. Congress. Reading from September 25, 2007 of the Congressional Record it seems to me that the members (it passed 395 – 0) who voted for </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/6677067356192296244/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2008/03/lies-by-omission-open-letter-to.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/6677067356192296244'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/6677067356192296244'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2008/03/lies-by-omission-open-letter-to.html' title='Lies By Omission, An Open Letter to Congress re DV Awareness Month by R. Davis'/><author><name>Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men and Women</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09540842730444740948</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-1507690964461166003</id><published>2008-03-16T12:38:00.001-04:00</published><updated>2008-03-16T13:39:38.878-04:00</updated><title type='text'>California Conference and Other Things</title><summary type='text'>I understand that the conference in California mentioned in my last post was well received by the 250 (approx.) attendees and that there are plans in the works to have another conference next year.  Great Job All!  Conference dvd's will be available shortly according to their website: http://www.nfvlrc.org/  (scroll to the bottom). I am looking forward to getting a copy of the conference dvd.
I </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/1507690964461166003/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2008/03/california-conference-and-other-things.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/1507690964461166003'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/1507690964461166003'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2008/03/california-conference-and-other-things.html' title='California Conference and Other Things'/><author><name>Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men and Women</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09540842730444740948</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-199269109002337657</id><published>2008-01-17T19:52:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2008-01-17T19:58:22.195-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Upcoming Conference Announcement- in Sacramento, California - From Ideology to Inclusion</title><summary type='text'>For all who work within the field of domestic violence this is a "not to be missed" conference!

National Family Violence Legislative Resource Center Presents:
From Ideology to Inclusion:Evidence-Based Policy and Interventionin Domestic Violence
The founders, pioneers and today�s most respected experts together in this historic, one-of-a-kind conference!
Erin PizzeyFounder of theBattered Women </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/199269109002337657/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2008/01/upcoming-conference-announcement-in.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/199269109002337657'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/199269109002337657'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2008/01/upcoming-conference-announcement-in.html' title='Upcoming Conference Announcement- in Sacramento, California - From Ideology to Inclusion'/><author><name>Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men and Women</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09540842730444740948</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-1728359438138461255</id><published>2008-01-17T19:42:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2008-01-17T19:47:05.764-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Defender of abused women finds a new cause: male victims</title><summary type='text'>Erin Pizzey, one of the pioneers of the battered women's movement in England has found a new cause: male victims.  This article comes from The Independent newspaper in the UK. 
By Emily Dugan
Published: 17 January 2008
Erin Pizzey, the campaigner who pioneered treatment for abused women by setting up Britain's first refuge centre for victims of domestic violence in the 1970s, is now turning her </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/1728359438138461255/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2008/01/defender-of-abused-women-finds-new.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/1728359438138461255'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/1728359438138461255'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2008/01/defender-of-abused-women-finds-new.html' title='Defender of abused women finds a new cause: male victims'/><author><name>Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men and Women</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09540842730444740948</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-1604545716289890271</id><published>2008-01-08T21:46:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2008-03-25T09:38:22.392-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Researchers Are Looking for Men Who've Been Assaulted by an Intimate Partner</title><summary type='text'>"The Men's Experiences with Partner Aggression Project is a research study at Clark University and is funded by the National Institute of Mental Health. Denise A. Hines, Ph.D., Clark University Department of Psychology, is the lead researcher on this project. She is conducting this project in conjunction with Emily M. Douglas, Ph.D., Bridgewater State College Department of Social Work and the </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/1604545716289890271/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2008/01/researchers-are-looking-for-men-whove.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/1604545716289890271'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/1604545716289890271'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2008/01/researchers-are-looking-for-men-whove.html' title='Researchers Are Looking for Men Who&apos;ve Been Assaulted by an Intimate Partner'/><author><name>Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men and Women</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09540842730444740948</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-1945104599811814292</id><published>2008-01-08T18:09:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2008-01-08T21:33:18.829-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Help Us Win America's Giving Challenge!</title><summary type='text'>DAHMW is competing in America's Giving Challenge sponsored by the Case Foundation and Parade Magazine. Please help us reach our goal of being one of the 100 nonprofits with the greatest number of unique donations so that we can win the $1,000 award! Each personal contribution, no matter what size counts as one unique donation! The challenge ends January 31st at 3pm EST so please hurry! Please </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/1945104599811814292/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2008/01/help-us-win-americas-giving-challenge.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/1945104599811814292'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/1945104599811814292'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2008/01/help-us-win-americas-giving-challenge.html' title='Help Us Win America&apos;s Giving Challenge!'/><author><name>Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men and Women</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09540842730444740948</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-888554099376122099</id><published>2007-12-28T12:02:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2007-12-28T12:05:48.976-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic abuse helpline for men and women'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic abuse helpline'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic abuse'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic violence men'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic violence'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic violence against men'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='dahmw'/><title type='text'>Domestic Violence: DAHMW.org - OUR SERVICES</title><summary type='text'>SERVICES

DAHMW.org Provides direct services and referrals to adult victims of intimate partner violence, our services include the following:

Crisis Hotline: 1-888-7HELPLINE24-hour hotline operated by staff and trained volunteers to offer information and crisis intervention to victims of intimate partner violence.

Information:Provide information about the issues concerning intimate partner </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/888554099376122099/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2007/12/domestic-violence-dahmworg-our-services.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/888554099376122099'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/888554099376122099'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2007/12/domestic-violence-dahmworg-our-services.html' title='Domestic Violence: DAHMW.org - OUR SERVICES'/><author><name>Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men and Women</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09540842730444740948</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-8478052046074808044</id><published>2007-10-06T16:16:00.001-04:00</published><updated>2008-12-09T15:29:13.543-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='partner abuse'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='An Open Letter to the United States Department of Justice (DOJ)'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic abuse'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic violence'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='partner violence'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='abused men'/><title type='text'>An Open Letter to the United States Department of Justice (DOJ).</title><summary type='text'>An Open Letter to the United States Department of Justice (DOJ). The National Domestic Violence Hotline with support from the United States Department of Justice Office on Violence Against Women has announced a 10-year Blueprint to redefine domestic violence primarily or only as, violence against women. The Press Release notes that 33 million American women are abused each year. The press release</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/8478052046074808044/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2007/10/open-letter-to-united-states-department.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/8478052046074808044'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/8478052046074808044'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2007/10/open-letter-to-united-states-department.html' title='An Open Letter to the United States Department of Justice (DOJ).'/><author><name>Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men and Women</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09540842730444740948</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_XbClBSq5WOs/RwfuAsPgiEI/AAAAAAAAAAM/GtJ4fQYxpRw/s72-c/Untitled-1.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-6461649493697032378</id><published>2007-09-30T19:28:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2007-09-30T19:30:18.881-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='violence against men'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic abuse helpline for men and women'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='partner abuse'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic abuse helpline'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic abuse'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic violence men'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic violence'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='partner violence'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='dahmw'/><title type='text'>WIFE 'BEATS' HUBBY</title><summary type='text'>For the Complete Article, go to:
http://jamaica-star.com/thestar/20070623/news/news1.html

WIFE 'BEATS' HUBBY

A wife who is charged with wounding her husband wept bitterly in court yesterday and had to be consoled by her loving partner who, amid the laughter of some persons present declared, "Mi still love har, yuh Honour."

The court learned that the petite wife had a dispute with her burly </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/6461649493697032378/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2007/09/wife-beats-hubby.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/6461649493697032378'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/6461649493697032378'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2007/09/wife-beats-hubby.html' title='WIFE &apos;BEATS&apos; HUBBY'/><author><name>Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men and Women</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09540842730444740948</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-458802328196982401</id><published>2007-09-27T12:28:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2007-09-27T12:40:03.931-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic abuse helpline for men and women'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic abuse helpline'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic violence'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='partner violence'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='dahmw'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='abused men'/><title type='text'>Women are doing virtually everything these days</title><summary type='text'>Women are doing virtually everything these daysthat men are—–including physically assaultingtheir spouses or partners.


Research in the area of  intimate partner violence(IPV) has been going on for decades.  A great deal ofthe research on IPV has been primarily focused onviolence against women by their male intimatepartners.  For years the research has shown that themost prevalent and injurious </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/458802328196982401/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2007/09/women-are-doing-virtually-everything.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/458802328196982401'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/458802328196982401'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2007/09/women-are-doing-virtually-everything.html' title='Women are doing virtually everything these days'/><author><name>Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men and Women</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09540842730444740948</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-7046104165374111857</id><published>2007-09-27T12:18:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2007-09-27T13:23:39.623-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic abuse helpline for men and women'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic abuse helpline'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic abuse'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic violence'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='dahmw'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='abused men'/><title type='text'>Men in Intimate Relationships With Abusive Women: The Myths and Realities</title><summary type='text'>Information for Men in Intimate Relationships
With Abusive Women: The Myths and Realities
Authored and Edited by Jan Brown and Eleanor Branch


Domestic abuse, often referred to as intimate partner violence (IPV), spousal abuse, or battering is now known to be a serious and preventable public health problem. However, questions still remain as to the exact meaning of “domestic abuse.” Violence </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/7046104165374111857/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2007/09/men-in-intimate-relationships-with.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/7046104165374111857'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/7046104165374111857'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2007/09/men-in-intimate-relationships-with.html' title='Men in Intimate Relationships With Abusive Women: The Myths and Realities'/><author><name>Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men and Women</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09540842730444740948</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-1260146786847627554</id><published>2007-08-12T20:46:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2007-08-12T20:47:45.216-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='resources'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic abuse helpline'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='assistance'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='research'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='support groups'/><title type='text'>RESOURCES</title><summary type='text'>Online Courses

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Shari Schreiber, M.A. ForumYou may similarly point to my borderline page.</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/1260146786847627554/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2007/08/resources.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/1260146786847627554'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/1260146786847627554'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2007/08/resources.html' title='RESOURCES'/><author><name>Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men and Women</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09540842730444740948</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-4961546082790332732</id><published>2007-08-12T20:27:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2007-08-12T20:29:53.503-04:00</updated><title type='text'>DAHMW.org - OUR SERVICES</title><summary type='text'>SERVICES


DAHMW.org Provides direct services and referrals to adult victims of intimate partner violence, our services include the following:


Crisis Hotline: 1-888-7HELPLINE


24-hour hotline operated by staff and trained volunteers to offer information and crisis intervention to victims of intimate partner violence.


Information:
Provide information about the issues concerning intimate </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/4961546082790332732/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2007/08/dahmworg-our-services.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/4961546082790332732'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/4961546082790332732'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2007/08/dahmworg-our-services.html' title='DAHMW.org - OUR SERVICES'/><author><name>Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men and Women</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09540842730444740948</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-5462912516186570657</id><published>2007-08-12T20:24:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2007-08-12T20:26:24.127-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic abuse helpline'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='real stories'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='headline stories'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='partner violence'/><title type='text'>True Stories</title><summary type='text'>TRUE STORIES

LEE'S STORY I'm your basic middle class male who was raised to respect women and never hit them. I am a good provider and a hard worker. I have authored 2 best selling books and sold a self-started company. My attitude didn't change when I got married. I regularly helped my wife cook and clean when I came home from a long day of work. That's why I am also one of those in total </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/5462912516186570657/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2007/08/true-stories.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/5462912516186570657'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/5462912516186570657'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2007/08/true-stories.html' title='True Stories'/><author><name>Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men and Women</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09540842730444740948</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-517235711037393490.post-1643474478331445739</id><published>2007-08-01T14:03:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2007-08-07T20:35:34.402-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='violence against men'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic abuse helpline'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic abuse'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='partner violence'/><title type='text'>Am I in an Abusive Relationship?</title><summary type='text'>QUESTIONS ABOUT AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP

Questions that may help a person decide if he/she is in an abusive relationship:

Do you often doubt your own judgment or wonder if you are crazy?

Are you often afraid of your partner?

Do you express your opinion less and less freely?

Have you developed fears of other people?

Do you tend to see others less often?

Do you ask your partner's permission </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/feeds/1643474478331445739/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2007/08/am-i-in-abusive-relationship.html#comment-form' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/1643474478331445739'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/517235711037393490/posts/default/1643474478331445739'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2007/08/am-i-in-abusive-relationship.html' title='Am I in an Abusive Relationship?'/><author><name>Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men and Women</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09540842730444740948</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry></feed>
